Dita, I tried yet again to p-m but I believe it failed to 'send' yet again.
Widget. The only BAD post was the one that concluded 'Just a thought'.

Sorry don't understand, but just thought someone was being upset by something,

OK, for Widget, let me try again. The fact is, the post ending in 'Just a thought' was the second 'hurt' moment for the 'someone who was upset' (myself)
See this: [quote="vannin"]Maisie, I have tried too, but no more. Not after this second attack from the same person. When any of us grieved, we empathised with each other. We know what it is like to live alone. That first time, I 'left' here, but returned after two or three weeks, in making allowances that people lash out with name-calling because they grieve. Also I felt I owed it to Rowan's memory.[end quote]

The fact is, that first posting (calling me 'the forum prefect') arrived on the anniversary of my son's death. He died of Asthma attack age 28.
Anyone who has spent ten miserable years in convent boarding school, will understand the misery it evoked. You may say 'Mountain out of molehill' but by last week's similar insult, I was genuinely frightened, 80th celebrations notwithstanding. A rule here is 'Anything Goes EXCEPT personal attacks. She left out my name (clever) so I am leaving out her name while not attacking, which is something I would not do. I hope this clarifies and I would now like to forget both upsets.

Agree forget it all, think I'll just stick to penny's quiz, can't get into trouble there, [I hope]

Vannin I have just sent you another PM.........just hope you get this time.

But Dita, I have had NO problem receiving yours, but always ( 3 times) sending my reply to you. It just fails to happen!

Sorry Vannin did'nt realise that, I must have been mistaken------which isn't so unusual for me. Anyway it is sorted for now, hopefully. I hope everyone are enjoying their Easter and love and hugs to yourself and Trixie, from Dolly and me xxxx