Trixie has been with me for 2.5 months now and I kept her in for the first 25 days. Freedom was hers 24/7 for the next fortnight, till I then had to start keeping her in at night, for which she is quite relieved. I just had not noticed other cats locally but of course, they had no reason to come near here while it was catless.
There are two toms in particular, which really upset her - and me, by their spraying when they visit - and the RSPCA people told me she couldn't stand other cats so I regret that fortnight she was exposed to them at night.
Since last Sunday,in this warm weather, rather than making short forays out in the day, she has been away for six hours or more, morning and afternoon !! I became quite worried on Sunday and went out calling. The weekdays, my own trips out coincide with hers.
Each time she saunters back pleading ravenous, I tell her she is a stopout and chide gently. Well, you know how human they are and just now she did a very interesting thing. I was watching her in the garden, the usual wash after breakfast then lovely rolling around the flowerbed till she spied me watching. She got up, chirruping, rushed back in by the kitchen window on to the worktop, nuzzled around my face and neck still chirruping, then was off again. It was very much a 'Bye, I'll be fine, don't worry, be back later.'
Viv