I went and delivered a letter to her very early (6am) yesterday morning.
I was only going to put it in the post, but I had to get the car out to do that as I don't (cant) walk that far and it was only twenty minues drive to her house so I thought I would take it personally, even though I had no intention of ringing the doobell at that time of day.
No phone call yesterday or today, so I have all but given up hope, there is no point me phoning her as she doesn't answer her phone and to visit her unannounced would almost certainly freak her out and label me as a desperate stalker.
Oh well, let's hope there are more "fish in the sea"